Managing Expectations Is Often Key to Chronic Pain Treatment

By Chris Seenan

In a 2026 study I conducted with colleagues on people with peripheral arterial disease, one participant described how leg pain had disrupted his golf for years. It forced him to stop mid-round, shake his leg and apologise to his playing partners while he waited for the pain to pass. He found it mortifying. 

Then he tried a small electrical device that delivered gentle pulses through pads stuck to his skin. He still had pain. But he could get round the course.

When we measured his walking on a treadmill, we found no improvement. He had not noticed. That was not the outcome that mattered to him. Before the study ended, he had already gone out and ordered his own device.

A different participant reached the opposite conclusion. The pain was still there when he used the device, he said. It had not done him any good. And he was right, in a narrow sense. The device had not eliminated his pain. 

What it had done was reduce its intensity and delay its onset, allowing him to walk measurably further. His expectation of complete relief meant that genuine, partial relief felt like failure. He concluded the treatment did not work.

The study did not tell a simple story of success or failure. For some participants, standard treadmill measures did not capture what had changed in daily life. For others, measurable improvements still failed to feel meaningful because they fell short of what the person had hoped for. 

The difference was not only the treatment, or the severity of their condition. It was what each person had been led to expect.

Recognising Relief

Both men were living with peripheral arterial disease, a condition caused by a build-up of fatty deposits inside the arteries that supply the legs. It affects an estimated 236 million people worldwide

Its hallmark symptom is a cramping pain in the calf during walking that eases with rest. Over time, it can shrink a person’s world, limiting independence and increasing the risk of serious cardiovascular problems.

The recommended first-line treatment is supervised exercise therapy: structured exercise sessions led by trained professionals. But in many countries, access to supervised exercise therapy remains patchy and under-resourced. That gap is fertile territory for the wellness market.

Transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation (TENS) delivers small electrical impulses through electrode pads on the skin to interfere with pain signals travelling to the brain. There is evidence that it can help with some kinds of pain, and it is used in hospital pain management settings. It is not a wellness product. 

In our study, we explored what happened when people with peripheral arterial disease used TENS independently at home, outside the controlled conditions of a clinical trial.

The findings point to something standard clinical tests rarely capture. Expectation can shape whether useful relief is recognised as useful.

That finding matters well beyond this particular device or condition. The global wellness industry is worth over a trillion dollars and operates with minimal regulatory oversight. People living with painful long-term conditions are among its most heavily targeted consumers. 

Companies sell electrical stimulation devices, supplements and wearable gadgets to people in chronic pain, using influencer testimonials in place of evidence and social media algorithms to reach people who are frightened, frustrated or in pain.

When a product fails to deliver the transformation it promised, patients rarely conclude they were misled. They conclude that nothing can help them. In conditions where reduced physical activity carries real health consequences, that conclusion is not merely disappointing. It is dangerous.

Poor Communication Hinders Treatment 

This is where the study speaks to a much wider problem. Whether a person is using a clinical device, a wearable gadget or a supplement sold online, they are often asked to judge it against expectations they did not set for themselves. Even legitimate, clinically tested treatments can be undermined by poor communication about what to expect.

The golfer’s experience illustrates this clearly. He valued an outcome that no clinical trial had thought to measure: the ability to play a round of golf without humiliation. Once he understood the device could offer that, it worked for him. His fellow participant was never given the chance to find his equivalent.

A market built around selling hope is poorly equipped for that kind of honesty. But the same danger can appear even when the person giving advice has medical credentials.

Research shows that even medically qualified doctors who become prominent wellness influencers on social media are subject to many of the same pressures as their unqualified counterparts: to build a personal brand, produce content constantly, stand out from competitors and make advice sound more certain than it really is. 

Having a medical degree does not make someone’s Instagram post better at managing a patient’s expectations. It just makes it more convincing.

What actually helps requires something platforms cannot provide: time, a genuine clinical relationship and communication that is not contingent on making a sale. 

It requires asking a patient not just whether their pain has reduced, but what they were hoping to do that pain had been stopping them from doing. It requires explaining that partial relief is still relief and that the outcome worth measuring might not be the one on the form.

That kind of honesty does not feature in any influencer’s discount code, medical degree or otherwise. But for the person who just wants to get round the golf course, it might be the most important part of the treatment.

Chris Seenan, PhD, Senior Lecturer in Physiotherapy at the University of Stirling 

His research focuses on the lived experiences of people with long-term conditions, particularly Peripheral Arterial Disease (PAD), Diabetes, and Chronic Pain. 

This article originally appeared in The Conversation and is republished with permission.  

Managing Emotions While Living with Chronic Pain

By Barby Ingle, Columnist

Before navigating through the minefield of the healthcare system, we need to get our own lives in order first.

It is important to learn the tools to manage chronic pain in a biological, psychological, social and spiritual approach. This can be quite tricky to do, if you don’t put effort into each area.

The one area most skipped over is the psychological challenge that comes with living in chronic pain. One of the things that negatively affected my healthcare was not having my emotions under control when going into a doctor’s office. I would go in expecting them to fix me and answer in broad sweeping terms that did not help them help me. I would typically cry, because I was in so much pain and trying to get someone else to understand was quite a challenge.

There were five major areas psychologically that I worked on: managing my conditions, avoiding peer pressure, figuring out tools that I was comfortable with, respecting the roles of everyone involved in my care, and setting expectations with my family and friends.

Once I became my own best advocate and learned to present my symptoms in ways that helped them understand, I finally started down the path to a team approach to managing my pain.

The first step was getting my emotions under control and taking responsibility for what happens between appointments. That meant making sure that I was organized, learned about my diseases and treatment options, and understood how my insurance worked. Getting organized really helped me get my emotions under control, let go of anxieties, and focus on maximizing my care and energy.

I also learned each provider has their own way of treating pain, and if that provider was not on board with me, I’d find a new one who was willing and able to help me accomplish my goals.

Avoid Peer Pressure

You may face some peer pressure from others in the pain community to try whatever they are doing. Remember to research and only do what you are ready to do for yourself. If it’s not right for you, then it’s not right for you. The stress of allowing others to pressure you into trying a treatment that you are not comfortable with can create a bad situation for you.

Don’t be misguided by the pressure to fit in with others who have the same disease as you. Be sure to stand up for yourself and the care you deserve.

Take Responsibility

We are taught from childhood that doctors fix sick people. Providers and parents make decisions for us about our medications and treatments. But as we age, it is important to learn that we are responsible for our own care, and to think through and develop our own solutions. This is an essential life skill for everyone, but when you are chronically ill it is even more important to develop.

Respect that pain takes a toll on us physically and emotionally, and that we must devote time, effort and energy to improve our living situation and be as mentally healthy as possible. So many times, I wanted to scream or have a tantrum. Can’t they hear me? Can’t they help me? Can’t they do something for me?

Finding more positive ways to say what I was going through and productive ways to communicate helped me get the best care possible in the worst of situations. No one helped me when I let my negative emotions lead me. I have learned to respect myself and others to get the care I need, know when to walk away, and when to find a better way.

Set Expectations Early

Most of my family understood that I was living with chronic pain and that it was not by choice. But not all of my husband’s family understood, and took the word of a nurse who said that I was acting up, looking for attention and nothing was wrong with me. Over the years most of them have come around, after I learned to be patient and stay consistent in my drive and determination.

I have only had to cut a few people out of my life and most of that happened because I was unable to set expectations. Now it is something I have learned to do at the start of any relationship. There is so much less frustration when I have to say sorry I can’t make it because of a pain flare or seizure. They know I want to be there, there just are times that my body doesn’t allow it.

Having chronic pain will challenge you in ways that you never imagined. Preparing for daily activities and pain flares becomes a must. So does searching for small ways to boost your own self-confidence.

Managing the emotional side of chronic pain can be done -- it just takes understanding, effort, and learning to choose your battles.

Barby Ingle lives with reflex sympathetic dystrophy (RSD), migralepsy and endometriosis. Barby is a chronic pain educator, patient advocate, and president of the International Pain FoundationShe is also a motivational speaker and best-selling author on pain topics.

More information about Barby can be found at her website. 

The information in this column should not be considered as professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. It is for informational purposes only and represents the author’s opinions alone. It does not inherently express or reflect the views, opinions and/or positions of Pain News Network.